You see something that feels wrong—a rude comment, someone being followed, an uncomfortable moment at a party. You want to say something… but you don’t. You freeze. You wait. Maybe someone else will step in?
That’s the bystander effect. It’s something most of us have experienced, and it doesn’t mean we’re bad people. It means we’re human. But at Our Voice, we believe that being a bystander doesn’t have to mean being passive. We can all learn how to step in, safely and effectively, when something isn’t right.